think negatively?

it's positive la, not negative!..haiiyooo...i know, u guys would say that...

i'm not trying to change ur mind set..but i'm juz speak out something that i feel like, "woah, it's logic"

my friend told me, "we need to think negatively!"..i wonder why..then she told that when we want or desire something, let's just let in mind, "we couldn't get it", "it couldn't happen", "i would never achieve it", "it's nonsense", "it's just a dream and will never comes true". so, when it's really never comes to us, so we wouldn't get hurt as we not expected that we will get it.

but, if it's really comes true, just treat it as a BONUS!

it's logic!

it's a better way if do not want to  get hurt...hihihi

she gave me an example,

if u love or have feeling towards someone, just set in ur mind that, "he will never love me", "it's just one sided love". then, if that guy really have no any feeling towards u, u'll never get hurt at least. but, if u get a positive reply, it's a JACKPOT!

guys, don't treat it seriously. everyone have their own view. it's she's. u must have yours.